Finding Motivation in Dull days!

Day 1 : Open your social media, look at people doing so well! Feel happy for your friends.

Day 10 : Open your social media, look at people doing so well. Have second thoughts about your choices.

Day 11 : Not opening social media, symptoms of second thoughts still on!

There are days I wonder as to why I get pushed down so low. Then I try and wake up from the slumber of self pity only to find such a weight on my chest throughout the day. I’m faking it. I don’t want to be happy but I’m smiling, making sure no one knows I’m stressed. 

Don’t even begin to think there is a social message in this post because there is none. 

What has lead me to believe that being low is a bad thing? What has given me the pressure of being the cheerleader? I spend years on making friendships that break in seconds over another person’s incredulous lack of sincerely. Sometimes I have all the ideas in the world but sometimes I just lie on my bed waiting for something to pick me up. And in the midst of all that I always find the silver lining in the fact that this is a new day. New beginnings and all that right? But that becomes a reason for negative soon enough when I head out for the routine!

So, what? What is the answer? The answer is suck it up and live real! Live like you are the one that matters most. Live like you can make a difference. Live like you’re the Messiah but do give yourself time to feel low. Time to grieve that bitter hate bite some annoyed relative, friend or acquaintance left on your heart. It is only fair that I understand my own self and give me the unconditional love that I deserve because Hey! If I don’t, who will?
Xoxo

Sherry 

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20 Comments Add yours

  1. Be inspired by your ideas.
    Thanks for sharing.

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  2. that is so motivational

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    1. Sherry says:

      Mission Accomplished!😎

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  3. This post is really helpful.

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  4. Dr Bushra says:

    we all are different and we must learn to love and respect ourselves
    motivating post

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    1. Sherry says:

      Thank you Bushra ! I love your name so much! And yes correctly said !

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  5. Very valid point! We need to pick ourselves up and move forward

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    1. Sherry says:

      Each time, every time! It is nice to surround yourself with positive people too! Much like you, Krupa!

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  6. nicely written… Like thoughts inside your mind out on the blog. Honestly everyone has good bad days… I guess looking at others and feeling worSe is the biggest mistake most people make.
    Push hard…Stay motivated do something you like or eat your fav food and then you will feel better yourself….

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    1. Sherry says:

      I am a real person inside out and on the blog so I like to give my readers the true picture of what some dull days feel like and how I kick back! You totally reiterate my thoughts Sharvari!

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  7. newsontube says:

    yes certainly social media makes you feel like you are not enjoying your life to the fullest

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    1. Sherry says:

      Sometimes… It is just overwhelming!

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  8. I have stopped using social media!!

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  9. Mummasaurus says:

    what lovely, heartfelt read 🙂

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    1. Sherry says:

      Thank you Mummasaurus!!

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  10. Nice, gave me an Idea. Will share with you when it works. Thank you.

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  11. Amit Bansal says:

    Well penned down!! 🙂 liked it

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